Ask, listen and accept a no the first time — socially, physically and in photos. Nobody owes you conversation, contact or their time.

All ages, bodies, races, genders, HIV statuses and identities across LGBTQIA+ are welcome. Racism, transphobia, femmephobia, ableism, serophobia, body-shaming and "just a preference" cruelty are not.

Solo travel can be daunting. Make room in the circle, learn names, invite people along. Cliques that lock others out are the one thing that ruins a trip.

Not everyone is out. Ask before photographing or tagging anyone, and never share someone's identity, status or location without permission.

Drink and party at your own pace, look after each other, and never pressure anyone. Illegal activity puts the whole group at risk and will end your trip.

Laws and attitudes vary. Follow host guidance in each destination, especially around public affection and photography.

If something feels wrong, tell your host — day or night. You can also email hello@gaysocialtrips.com. Reports are handled discreetly.

Depending on severity we may give a warning, change rooming, remove someone from an activity, or end their trip immediately at their own cost and without refund. Serious matters may be reported to local authorities.